As Villages go, Lathrup belongs right there with that one that M. Night Shamalayan made a movie about, except without the guard towers.
Surrounded on all sides by the much larger city of Southfield, Lathrup Village with its numerous mock-tudors and bungalows with attached garages--by city ordinance!--looks like the sort of place where Beaver Cleaver might come pedaling down the street at any moment. I like to call it "Pleasantville", or "The Land That Time Forgot."
Lathrup Mansion circa 1927 |
Partial to things both English and Californian, the Lathrup ladies gave the streets names like Middlesex and Kilbirnie, San Diego and San Jose. These streets are not laid out in a predictable grid, but rather, meander and wind, giving the place a pleasingly bucolic feel. A few of the streets remain unpaved, even into the 21st century.
Anne Lathrup School |
old City Hall |
Anne Lathrup school, where laughing blond children had once attended, became first a Jewish school, and then an academy for African American students. Anne Lathrup must have been rolling over in her blueprints.
But what of the famous mansion, the jewel and heart of the place? It had become, as of some twenty five years ago, almost completely obscured by a wild tangle of overgrowth and untended trees. I had occasion to take a walk up the crumbling cobblestones of the old circular drive one day and ring the bell. There had been no name or street number on the tilted curbside mailbox across the street, but I knew this had to be it.
The Munsters' home, 1313 Mockingbird Lane |
I was pretty sure that I must have mistakenly arrived at 1313 Mockingbird Lane and that Herman Munster would presently be answering the door. It happens that, around this time, I worked with a woman who was living in the house, though not related to the family. She told stories implying that the occupants had become a rather odd and eccentric lot. Then again, they weren't really stories. She liked to imply. If asked about the weather outside, this co-worker would characteristically pause, stare off at some indeterminate spot in the middle distance, and say something cryptic, like "I wouldn't buy new spoons today, if you know what I mean," followed by a knowing, conspiratorial glance. I never had any idea what she meant at all. She must have fit right in!
Nonetheless, I was saddened last year when I heard that fire had destroyed much of the old house. Though my mind immediately flashed on visions of some suburban Miss Havisham having an accident with a candle, it was reported that faulty electrical wiring had been the culprit. The house is shortly to be demolished at the Village's expense, as the family has no money.
Exclusionary though they most certainly were, nonetheless the Lathrup ladies had imagination and energy enough to conceive of an idea they considered would be beautiful, functional and worthwhile, a haven if you will, and they made their vision a reality. The Lathrup mansion, and the Village which surrounded it, had an undeniable beauty, and it makes me sad to think that the romantic--if ruined--old place won't be there anymore.
Meanwhile, Lathrup Village itself has fared much better, having become a pleasant melting pot of white, black, Chaldean and Asian people, and who knows, maybe even another queer little Catholic gal like me. The Village has changed, but survived, and I confess a soft spot for this little dot on the map, which will lose its heart, the Lathrup mansion, any day now. I'm sorry to see it go.
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I really like this post, talking about the past and tying it into the present.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Shay. I enjoyed learning about the village. It's so sad when landmarks change from once beautiful to sad neglected places.
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Good one Shay !!!
What a magical place it must've been with all that charm and character. I would've loved to have accompanied you there in the 80s.
ReplyDeleteI found the story of Lathrup fascinating... I love the way you told it, your words filled with the mystery of the place.
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ReplyDeleteYou're right, I missed this one. But I can't keep up! It does look like somewhere the Munsters would have lived ;)
ReplyDeleteThanks for the little history lesson. Interesting story.
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ReplyDeleteI'm sure all your information is correct. However, I do not believe there are any other "little queer catholic girls" like you. Oh they exist, but YOU are a unique, you are our Shay :-)
I've been through Lathrup Village and it's quite quaint.
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I went to Soughfield High School and our biggest rivals was Southfield-Lathrup, which we all knew as the 'rich kids' school.
(Later we learned that they were only richer than US, but they fell short of kids in Bloomfield Hills, Birmingham and the other Oakland County communities with REAL money)
Love the tale you tell. Your story telling is charming my friend.
ReplyDeleteThose old houses have their charms and I'm sure their skeletons
thanks for all your visits this week
sure nice to have friends in blogdom
Moonie smiles
What an interesting place. I would have wanted to knock on that door, too.
ReplyDeleteThis is so fascinating and your telling it made it especially so .. you have one of the best talents .. an abilty to express yourself and involve others ... whether its poetry or prose ... thank you for sharing this ..
ReplyDelete"I wouldn't buy new spoons today, if you know what I mean."?
ReplyDeleteNo, lady, I don't. I have no idea.
But imagine. Two daft suffragettes designing -- and building -- an entire town. Ya gotta love that.
We have, just outside Chapel Hill, a place I like to call Stepford. Technically not a village (though it uses that word in its name) it is, all the same, a very creepy, sterile place. A containment area if you will. But try as I might, I can't romanticize the place.
In fact, it kinda creeps me out.
You really are a marvelous storyteller, Shay.
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